Cancelled Date

The last time we saw each other was two months ago when she gave birth to her first baby. She has been the hands on mother for two months already. We just exchanging messages online since time won’t let us see each other. She is busy and so am I. I was surprised last night after see message me saying can we meet at the mall today. I immediately said yes to her because I missed seeing my best friend and also wanted to see her baby. All is set and agreed us by where, when and what time we going to meet. We call it a date.

I woke up with the smile on my face because I am so excited to see her and the baby. My excitement mood was change after hearing that my nephew has fever.arghs! I won’t be able to come and meet my friend with the condition of my nephew. I went online to message my friend that I have to cancel the date. Good thing is that she also online and waiting for me to come online. I was about to tell her when she message me first that she can’t go because her in-laws are visiting her and the baby. I said, thanks God after reading her message. Indeed expect the unexpected. We both cancelled our date and promised to set it some other time.

Blue Monday #35: My Friends


I have been featured these friends of mine in my blogs. And I am going to feature them again here. I was browsing a pictures that I can share it here. Fortunately I found this picture in my files. My friends during the wedding of my sister a year ago. Lovely ladies isn’t it? These are Nancy, Ada and Anne. Thank you ladies for coming especially for bringing

My share for this week’s:

Smiling Sally

Why and Why?

I have encountered many challenges in life since childhood. I am able to face it with the help of my brothers and sister. They are my wings and strength to go on with life. My mother passed away when I was nine, since then we promise to help each other through thick and thin. We are able to overcome because we do share a thing that bothers us.

Now that we are older and some have families of their own, I feel so lonely and alone. There are lots of things that bother me right now and I needed an outlet to let it out. I am shy to share it to them for some reasons. There are lots of why’s that are running in my head for the past days and until now still searching for answers. Even though I am smiling, deep inside I am crying out loud. My friend told me to go out, unwind and refresh myself because it helps a lot to lighten the burden. She is the only person I have talked to and shared some things that are happening in my life right now. I hope that she wont get satiate in listening to my miseries and can still offers her shoulders to cry on. I can feel she understand me more now than my brothers since my sister is busy in her own family. God give me the strength to go on finding the answers to the entire why’s that bothers me.


Seven Years and Counting


These are my friends in their seven years of being in a relationship. I admire their love story that makes me write this. Their love is a concrete example of patience, faith, understanding and of course the kind of love they have for each other. In fact I a bugging them on when will I be hearing their wedding bells. They just laughed at me. And I am wondering because I am not joking when I said it. Oh well, jokingly said but touch of reality I must say.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment and thinking a million times is needed because it is not the kind of thing that we cannot return nor we cannot walk away if we do not like it anymore. Thinking about it makes me understand why this couple is not married yet. Maybe they want to make sure and plan everything before entering into another stage of their life. On the seven years of being in a relationship and counting, I pray and wish them the best of luck.