Painful experience of the sister but still thankful

The sister is surprised when she found out that she is pregnant. She is not expecting it to get pregnant because her youngest is just 11 months old. It took two days to sink in her mind that she is expecting her fourth child. The child is a blessing and she is thankful to God for another this but the sister is worried because she is not ready physically, mentally and financially. Plus, her age is too risky to have another c-section operation. I felt sad for my sister but at the same time happy and excited for another angel will be added to the family soon and will add happiness to us.

The sister confined in the hospital due to severe bleeding. We are worried and praying that she is fine as well as the baby. Unfortunately, because of miscarriage, the baby is gone. The baby is just 5 weeks and 2 days. It was a very sad and painful experience to my sister and the family. The sister is crying because she lost her baby, and blaming herself. I do not want her to feel guilty so I have comforted her and telling her that the baby is not meant for them. God plan is better than our plan. God hears her worries that another pregnancy is too risky for her. Even if it is too painful to her, the sister accepted what happened and still thankful to God for it. What had happened is very painful to her but thankful to God. God loves her that much no matter how sad and painful it is.

She is living her dream

Back when I was in college, our group feasibility study and the business plan we presented is a bakery business. To us, it is the perfect business to put up to business we Filipinos loves to eat bread. It is one of the profitable and good business to put up. It was our goal in finishing the business related course we took, to have our own business in the future. It is not easy because it needs a huge capital to start the business, but who knows it will come true in the near future. We are crossing our fingers though.

When I graduated, my friends proceed to master’s course, and some landed into office works in a company. Our communication continues and we are still talking about the business plan back in college. For me, it will take some time in pursuing it for financial reasons. Just recently, a friend of mine who is the leader of our group in college put up her own business and it is a bakery business. She has just started it and doing well. I am so happy for her because she is living her dream and pursuing our business plan. I envy her because she is living her dream but so happy for her. I hope that I can do that too. How? I do not know yet for I do not have the capital needed. Hopefully one day with God’s will.

The first examination result went well

The first examination of my four-year-old nephew is very stressful. The pointers are very long and we are having the difficult time teaching him because he is very playful, does not listening to us and keeps on moving here and there. He gets easily distracted with noise and kids playing outside. Though we are not pressuring him because he is just started, it is right to study his lessons so he can answer their test papers correctly. The examination took two days and two subjects per day. We are giving him activities during our study sessions and he likes doing it. He is cooperating doing his activities.

The result was given to us last Monday. We are not expecting for good results because the nephew is very slow in memorizing the lessons and easily forgets what we studied. But we are glad to see the results of his first grading examination he gets high scores. I must say it went very well. He got the perfect score in one of the subjects and I am so proud of the nephew. It is a long way to go and I hope the nephew will continue doing good so he will be ready for Kinder 2 next year. Hopefully, he will pass the entrance examination for Kinder 2 next school year.

The brother’s 34th Birthday

Birthdays are one of the happiest days of everyone’s life. It happens once a year that is why celebrants want to celebrate their special day with the family, friends, relatives and some invited guests. They make sure that their day is memorable and enjoyable. Some preferred to celebrate it simple with their family like dinner in the restaurant, beach or at their home. Our family, usually have the birthday celebration at home and we want it simple. The celebrant will go to church, attend a mass and light a candle. It is our way of saying thank you to God for another year of life.

Last September 2, 2017, was the 34th birthday of the youngest brother. They live very far from us. And we are glad that he chooses to celebrate his special day with us, especially my father who misses his youngest child. It was a simple celebration as usual, but another memorable memory for him and the family because he celebrates it with us. It shows that the brother loves and like to spend his special day with us together with his son and wife. Just a bit sad because older brother was not able to come. He is so tired from work and opted to rest than to travel. And we do understand him. Also, the brother invited some of his closest friends since high school. I must say that he was so happy that day. Happy birthday to my brother and I wish him all the best in life.

It is better to hear the truth first

One of the thing that ruins the relationships is gossips because it causes misunderstanding to people. It is proven because I have experienced that. In my case, it was a simple misunderstanding, I did not dwell on it hoping that it will die naturally. However, my cousin started gossiping about me and her. And as expected, I am the bad one. I felt sad and want to fight back, but decided to ignore it because I know what is the truth. It did ruin our relationship as cousins, though we are okay now because we have talked about it after six long years of avoiding the misunderstanding, the scar is still there. Our relationship is not as close as before.

I am sharing my experience because of the friend who is asking my advice about gossips issue. She is not in good terms with her husband’s aunt because of bad gossips. Their misunderstanding started through gossips. She is not confronting the aunt personally to clear things up. She is angry as well as the aunt. I shared to hear my experience. I told her to talk to the aunt, clear things up before it will worsen the situation. Do not ignore it for it will last long like what happened to me. Told her to better hear the truth from the aunt before overreacting for it will not help the situation at all. I hope my advice works and will help her solve the misunderstanding with her husband’s aunt.