As my new year begins, a friend of mine asked me a question.  Would I be like to be single mother or  a married woman?  Put me in deep thinking of course. 

My friend and I do not have the same opinion and thinking about this matter.  On his point of view, if he got a baby it is okay not to marry the woman.  He has a job and can provide and raise the baby alone.  Which is opposite to me.  If I have a baby I also want the father of the baby.  He is not a believer in marriage and I do believe in the sanctity of marriage. 

Many are single mother with a better career. To him, it is better to be live alone with a successful career than to live with a person that is useless and not working.  Each has the role in the family, if the wife/woman is working the husband can takes good care of the house and the kids. I must say being at home is not easy.  Doing the same thing daily will makes a person bored.  But if you are doing it out of love for the family it is okay.  In marriage, it is important to talk and communicate with each other to avoid misunderstanding and insecurity in life.  Especially nowadays that woman are career-oriented and many are house-husband.  If ever I am a career woman and my husband doesn’t do well in finding a job, taking care of the house and the kids are a big help.  It is the matter of understanding and respecting each role in the family.  No stereotyping because it wont help the marriage life grows stronger and lasting.

If you were to choose, what do you prefer? Single Mother or a Married Woman?

1 Comment

  1. by sHeNgKaY, on January 7 2011 @ 10:39 am

  is really a case to case scenario…but for the sake of the baby it still healthy to have a complete family..and it takes a lot of guts and tapang ng loob na maging single mom..ask me! hehehe..

    to all single mom out there aja! lalo na kong yung tatay ng anak natin ay hindi na nagpaparamdam.. its emotionally and finacially draining..

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